Talking to Strangers: Linking Up Again

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TalkingToStrangersIt has been too long since I have talked to strangers.  As a matter of fact I realized the other day that I have now been blogging for over two and a half years now…wow…two…and…a half…years.   I suppose that means I missed my anniversary six months ago…huh?!

I can’t believe it.

During these last two and a half years amazing things have happened for me…

I was a contributor for Just Be Enough.  My best friend and I shared a blog.

I’ve been to two bloggy luncheons (Girls Lunch Out).

I have shared my voice at the Kir Corner, Wednesday’s Woman and Great Expectations

I have co-written several mad crazy fun posts with Abby.

I taught my self graphic design and fell in love with the creative outlet it gave me.

I rediscovered a long lost talent and started to draw again.

I discovered within myself a woman who loves words, loves the pictures they paint and smiles at the experiences it shares.

I have been dragged in from my corner outside of the blogosphere huddled in lock down tight security fearful of sharing too much and discovered a world of in the blogosphere that is phenomenally, fantastic, beautiful, supportive and just plain amazing woman who encourage and make me feel like I am safe to try new things and put myself out there.  A group of woman I now proudly call friends.

My creations are seen, my words are read (by someone other then me…),  they were shared,  heard and I thought….

I thought all of this was enough.  I have thought that it was enough for a long time now.

Then it happened…

I was on twitter one Saturday morning and I saw it…#SITSSharefest.  Huh?!  I thought.  There is was again and again and again.  SITS huh?!  Of course I had to check it out.  I knew what SITS was but needed a refresher about what the sharefest was.  HOLY MOMMA it was a link up on crack!  100s of bloggers came, linked up and then shared, chatted and connected.  So I decided I would jump right in.  So I started on twitter. On there, Bloggers were sharing their favorite posts of the week.  We were reading and commenting, laughing, talking, giggling and it was a blast.  As soon as the #SITSSharefest came to an end I marked my calendar (aka put it in my phone with two reminders…one for when I forget and a second when I forget the reminder) I was certain this was something I wanted to do again.  Three weeks later I am still excited to connect with #SITSSharefest on Saturday.  I am excited to talk with new friends and get to know new bloggers.  I am excited to talk about writing, creating and blogging.  I am excited to share what I know about blogging with other and exchange ideas.  I am excited to connect with a new group of blogger, to join #Sharefest on Saturday mornings and to link up!

I thought my blogging life was full and complete.

What I realized is that old friends are amazing but meeting new people and connecting with others is as equally important, meaningful and enriching my blogging life.

I need to remember that often!

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Author: Laverne

A year and a half ago my best friend thought it would be a great idea to start a blog together. With a deep breath and fear that all the weirdos in the world would start stalking me or come to my house and kidnap my children we started Kindred Adventures together and Laverne was born. Under this new found anonymity I began to write. The more I wrote, the more people I met. The more wonderful, kind and amazingly caring people I met the braver I got. The braver I got the more confident I became...and suddenly I had found my voice I never knew I had. Today I find my life blessed by the voice I found, enriched by the incredible people I have met blogging and that I have not been stalked and my children have not been kidnapped. I am Laverne. I am a wife, mother, educator, best friend and sister. I have found my voice and I intend to us it!

7 Comments

  1. What a great message.
    It’s so true, we get comfortable with the friends we keep (blogs we read), and instead of branching out and exploring tend to stick to our own.
    I like to read a few new people a week and look at new articles.
    There’s always room for more friends.

  2. Love the wisdom in your words! I am so looking forward to the Sharefest this weekend. I don’t have to work on Saturday, so I can actually participate!
    Kimberly recently posted..Memories Captured: Second ChancesMy Profile

  3. I met you at that #SITSSharefest. So happy I did.

    Love your quote at the end. Making new friends is a beautiful thing.
    Tracie recently posted..Parental Trauma At The Dentist OfficeMy Profile

  4. Hey lady! I’ll have to check out the sharefest. I signed up over at SITS when I started blogging a year ago, but was overwhelmed. Not anything against SITS, of course, I just have trouble managing it all. Very impressed you set reminders. Maybe I’ll try that.

    Inspiring post, and a great reminder as to why I, too, blog. Much love for you.
    Kimberly Speranza (Sperk*) recently posted..Wednesday’s Woman: Works of Mommy PadawanMy Profile

  5. I do the Sharefest linkup, but I haven’t participated in the Twitter party yet. It tends to be bad timing for me. I’ll have to make an extra effort!

    Happy Saturday!
    another jennifer recently posted..Philanthropy Friday: Zelda’s MissionMy Profile

  6. I do love Sharefest but don’t do the Twitter party, yet as Jennifer says. Bad timing for me on a Saturday. Today I’m going to visit ten Sistahs. You are number three. Have a great day.
    Sheila Skillingstead recently posted..Life and DeathMy Profile

  7. Aaww, great post! As a new blogger, this inspires me to keep going. I love the community aspect, and finding other bloggers that think like me has been a lot of fun.
    Lisa recently posted..Anti-Valentines: My Latest Million Dollar IdeaMy Profile

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